I recently completed two posts and I used the expression ‘or is it?’ in both. That got me thinking about some reading that I’ve done recently on the subject of decision making.
We are often confronted with situations in which we are called upon to make a decision. Our decisions frequently look like binary choices. That is, we pick one of two choices. We either choose to do something, or we choose to do something else.
My posts spoke about two choices. Different choices, but essentially two choices in each case.
Why do we so often get fixated on the ‘EITHER/OR’ choice? Why don’t we pause long enough to consider that the best choice might be the ‘AND’ choice? In other words, why don’t we choose to do both?
I am not trying to suggest that the ‘AND’ choice is the best. But, if others are impacted by our decision making, then considering ‘AND’ demonstrates some sensitivity towards others. This in turn could lead to more creative thinking on the part of others because they feel that their input is being listened to and is being considered.
Who knows, perhaps making the ‘AND’ choice will open up opportunities that simply would not have been possible otherwise.